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101 Words of Encouragement for Your Wife, Girlfriend, or The Woman You Love

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101 Words of Encouragement for Your Wife, Girlfriend, or The Woman You Love

How can I encourage my wife or girlfriend? What words should I say to her?

The relationship between husband and wife is very important. If you want to get along well with your wife or girlfriend, then you should try to give them some words of encouragement.

You can also tell your wife or girlfriend that she has done something good. For example, you can tell her that she looks beautiful today.

You can also tell her that she is smart and talented. These are simple ways to encourage your wife or girlfriend.

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Words of Encouragement for Your Wife or Girlfriend During Difficult Times

  • 1. “You make me really proud.” – This is another nice word. It means that you admire how hard she works to accomplish things. Your wife or girlfriend likes to hear words like this from you. She wants to be praised by you.
  • 2. “I love having you as a mommy.” – This will also mean that you are happy to have a woman who takes care of the kids. This is not just an empty phrase. In fact, it shows that you respect your wife or girlfriend’s work.
  • 3. “Honey, I’m proud of you; I think you did a great job on the house last night.” – This is a way of telling your wife or girlfriend that you noticed something about her. She might feel appreciated when you praise her for something without directly asking her to do something.
  • 4. “Thank you for doing a wonderful job in helping me out.” – Even if you didn’t ask anything from her, she still understands what you meant. Her feelings were understood by you even though there was no direct question involved.
  • 5. “I am so proud of you, honey.” – This is one of the nicest words you could ever use for your wife or girlfriend. It means that you are happy to see a person who is able to take care of herself.
  • 6. “You’re so kind, dear.” – One of the best words you can express towards a woman in your family. This is a great compliment because it means that the listener is special to you.
  • 7. “I really appreciate your support through all those years.” – This is true indeed. She supported you financially but also emotionally during tough times. So, she deserves thanks and appreciation.
  • 8. You’ve worked hard throughout our marriage.” – This is a simple statement meaning that you thank her for staying loyal to you and supporting you throughout their married life. This makes her feel valued and respected.
  • 9. “That was a wonderful dinner, Honey.” – This is a nice comment. A man doesn’t need to tell his wife or girlfriend that he thinks that the food was delicious. He simply tells her that he enjoyed the meal.
  • 10. “Your cooking’s delicious.” – This is another simple phrase that lets your wife know that you enjoyed the meal. But instead of saying nothing, you can add a few compliments like “It tastes delicious,” or “This smells great.”
  • 11. “You keep me warm at night.” – Using this sentence helps your wife or girlfriend feel cared for. By saying “you” instead of “me,” your wife knows that she isn’t alone.
  • 12. Sweetheart, I wish you were here with me right now.” – This is a very romantic way of letting your wife or girlfriend know that you miss being together.
  • 13. “You make my heart smile.” – This is a sweet way of saying that you love the person listening. If your girlfriend is upset, this one word will cheer her up immediately.
  • 14. “You’re amazing, my dearest!” – Of course, you don’t want these words used too often. Because they’ll sound fake and cliché. No matter how much you say them, it won’t bring back the original feeling.
  • 15. “Thanks for giving birth to our son/daughter.” – Not only does this make your wife or girlfriend feel good, but it also tells him/her that you appreciate whatever role she played during childbirth.
  • 16. “You look beautiful today.” – There are two reasons why you should say this. First of all, it’s one of the easiest ways to let a girl know that you notice some beauty feature on her body. That’s important especially if you are dating someone for the first time. Second, this compliment will help her feel more attractive.
  • 17. I wish you’d come home earlier.” – Saying this means that you missed having your girlfriend around. Since you are not always working overtime, it’s okay to admit that you prefer spending some quality time with each other instead of playing video games or watching movies.
  • 18. “I’m glad we found each other.” – This is an honest comment about how you are feeling. When a guy says that, he means business and wants something serious. And when a lady hears this, she feels appreciated and appreciated.
  • 19. “There are days where I wonder where I would be without you.” – This is a positive confession as well. Instead of wishing you hadn’t met her, you simply state what has actually happened in your lives. It’s better than wishing you could change things and have never met her at all.
  • 20. “You’re beautiful inside and out.” – Nowadays, many people use cheesy lines instead of stating facts. So, this is true that there’s nothing wrong with using this type of phrases every once in a while. Just take note of the timing. It sounds awkward to hear it when you’re already having a bad day. As a result, you must practice this before actually using it.
  • 21. “You’re my world.” – You might think that saying this makes no sense because your world doesn’t seem complete without your girlfriend by your side. But it’s actually saying that you don’t want to live without her. Every relationship needs time to grow. And your relationship has just started off.
  • 22. “Thank you for everything.”– Don’t forget to thank your girlfriend whenever you can. For example, when you receive a gift from her, give her a quick thanks. Or when you do chores around the house, tell her that you’d like doing those activities with her someday soon. She’ll surely appreciate this gesture from you.
  • 23. We’ll get through this together.” – Whenever you see her going through tough times, remind her that you are there for her to lean on. This shows her that you care about her feelings.
  • 24. Your smile makes me happy.”– Even though this seems like a simple phrase, it is very powerful in expressing gratitude. A woman’s happiness goes hand-in-hand with his feelings. So, telling her that she has made you happy will definitely make her feel loved.
  • 25. “I love you so much.” – Say these words as often as possible. Why? Because this will show that you mean it. Women need proof from their man that they are important to him. So, saying these words will certainly prove that you do indeed love them.
  • 26. “I’m sorry I haven’t been able to spend enough time with you lately.” – Although you may have forgotten to call your girlfriend after work sometimes, please apologize immediately. Doing so lets her know that you value her and would want to spend time with her even more.
  • 27. “I’ve been thinking about us moving in together.” – It’s great to think ahead and consider the future. And although you are still single, taking action will ensure that this phase of your life won’t last forever.
  • 28. I’m proud of you for being strong.” – Even though it seems cliché, a compliment from a friend always works. So, if your girlfriend does anything good, let her know that you were impressed by her actions.
  • 29. I wish I could take away all your pain.” – Whenever someone is hurting, it’s best to acknowledge that fact. In order to help, it’s best to offer any assistance that you can. If you can’t do anything, then at least say you wish you could.
  • 30. “Thank you for making me a better person.” – There’s nothing quite like hearing words of appreciation from someone else. So, it’s best to accept these compliments gracefully. After all, you only deserve the best.
  • 31. “Everything is going to be okay.” – This is one of the most comforting phrases. Whenever something unexpected happens, try reassuring yourself that whatever it is will come to an end. Plus, knowing that your partner believes in you will put you at ease.
  • 32. I can’t wait until we can finally start our lives together.” – Once upon a time, marriage was considered a lifetime commitment. However, nowadays people choose not to tie the knot before getting married. Also, many couples prefer living separately before deciding to settle down. Either way, you should never rush into things. Take your time to really consider whether this is the right decision.
  • 33. “I wish I had taken better advantage of our time together.” – Whether you spent time with her, took a vacation, or slept with her, do not forget to use this opportunity to its full potential. Remember, every moment counts!
  • 34. “I am grateful that you are here.” – Whatever difficulties are currently facing you, you can always find some meaning in this statement. Think back on your relationship and how far you have both come. This will remind you of all the good times that came along with it.
  • 35. “You’re worth waiting for.” – When you fall in love, you tend to overlook certain details from your significant other. But once he/she does something special for you, you truly realize just how valuable they are. Make sure to appreciate them as often as possible.
  • 36. I hope someday we’ll get to share our first kiss again.” – What makes relationships unique is that they are different each day. So, make sure to cherish moments like this because it can happen anytime. Don’t stress over small issues; instead focus on what’s important.
  • 37. You’re my world.” – Sometimes when you think of your lover, you might feel overwhelmed by the intensity of your feelings. So, when you tell him/her how much you care about them, try repeating this phrase. Or, simply thank him/her for everything they mean to you.
  • 38. “You made me a man today.” – One of the ultimate ways to show appreciation is by teaching your wife/girlfriend how to handle herself. So, whenever she proves herself worthy, always make sure to express your happiness.
  • 39. “That’s the sweetest thing anyone has ever done for me!” – As soon as you hear this, your heart will melt. And, there’s no need telling us why. It’s because it takes real effort to surprise someone. So, try doing the same for the next person who deserves it: your husband/wife.
  • 40. I don’t want to leave you.” – When you speak to your significant other, avoid saying things like “It would be nice…” Instead, try using statements such as “Let’s keep having fun.” These ones imply that you’re looking forward to spending more time together, which will help create positive emotions.
  • 41. I love being with you.” – Every couple needs to celebrate their individuality. That means finding reasons to spend time together alone without any distractions. However, if you want to strengthen your bond even further, try making decisions together rather than relying on separate opinions.
  • 42. Thank you for giving me an amazing gift.” – No matter how big or small, the gesture matters most at the end of the day. Find out why she gave you this specific gift, and then treat it with respect.
  • 43. “Please forgive me for what I did.” – Everyone makes mistakes, and you cannot blame yourself for it. In fact, admitting your guilt shows just how much you value your partner. Also, apologize sincerely for breaking their trust.
  • 44. “I’m sorry that I hurt you.” – When you say these words, you are acknowledging the pain you’ve caused. If you truly regret what you said, apologize immediately. Be honest about your motives. Do not make excuses.
  • 45. “I am in awe of you.” – Whenever you find yourself admiring your honey, hold back until the moment passes. Because it won’t last long; after all, he/she is quite remarkable. Focus instead on all his/her good qualities.
  • 46. You inspire me to do better.” – Showing gratitude isn’t enough to keep your woman satisfied. If you truly look up to her, strive to raise her expectations so that she can become stronger.
  • 47. “There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for you.” – When your significant other does something for you, make sure to accept it graciously. This way, you will send a message that you appreciate his/her efforts wholeheartedly.
  • 48. “I’d never let anything hurt you.” – Even if you know he/she is going through tough times, keep your distance from them. Let him/her deal with the problem on his/her own. Remember: A person is only as strong as what they hide.
  • 49. “Every single day, I treasure our relationship.” – Expressing gratitude can go beyond simple words. Make a point to touch and compliment your mate every chance you get.
  • 50. “You mean everything to me.” – Admit your feelings before you start bickering about things that should have been resolved in the past. Take away any reason to quarrel, and then tell her exactly how you feel.
  • 51. “I want to give you my all.” – There are many ways to express your dedication to your girlfriend. But remember to give 100% when she asks you to do so. She’ll always expect you to live up to this promise.
  • 52. Without you, there’s no meaning to my life.” – Some people think it’s cheesy, but it might actually work. Whether you believe it or not, expressing your undying love for your girlfriend could bring some real results. Men who constantly proclaim their adoration usually get attention. So, maybe ladies like that!
  • 53. “Forever” – It may sound cliché, but forever does happen. With time, you two will grow old together and die off someday. And when that happens, you’ll still want to be lying next to each other. 
  • 54. “To you, I pledge eternal love.” – Every word counts, but these three are considered romantic. They’re also perfect for a proposal. After all, who would turn down eternal love?
  • 55. “From the bottom of my heart.” – To convey your deepest emotions, it helps to use more than one word. Words are powerful tools, and this phrase offers an effective alternative.
  • 56. “I am proud to call you mine.” – Many women enjoy hearing this kind of statement because it symbolizes ownership. In fact, those who regularly hear it tend to gain confidence about their relationships, which allows them to perform at higher levels.
  • 57. Your smile lights up my world.” — Not just any girl will appreciate having her man say this to her. It shows that he cares deeply about her well-being, and it inspires her to strive towards greatness.
  • 58. “I’m not giving up on us.” — It’s true that sometimes marriage doesn’t end well. But don’t give up hope. Remind yourself why you fell for your partner in the first place and vow to stay by his side.
  • 59. “I’ve got your back.” — Show this to your significant other. It means you’d stand by him/her regardless of what comes in their path.
  • 60. “We belong to each other.” — If you’re having doubts about whether you’ve done enough for someone else, you need to clear them up right now. Tell your woman you understand how hard it must be for her to put herself out there sometimes. Then take action to prove it!
  • 61. “I won’t leave you.” — This is especially helpful for couples where one member has left for another, or vice versa. By saying this, you effectively reassure both parties that you will never consider leaving.
  • 62. “The best thing about being with you is…” — Once again, using multiple words works wonders. Be specific and elaborate!
  • 63. This is your home, too.” — It’s normal to feel nervous about starting a new relationship. However, you shouldn’t let anxiety affect you once you officially become a couple. Let your lady know she belongs there with you.
  • 64. “You make me better.” — This is an awesome compliment that goes beyond just simple appreciation. When you tell your lover how much they mean to you, you’re showing her that she makes you a better version of yourself. That should delight her!
  • 65. “I will never hurt you.” — Saying this shows your commitment to treating her with respect. It’s important to treat every person you encounter as if they were your most treasured possession.
  • 66. “I only have eyes for you.” — If you notice your girlfriend looking into another guy’s eyes, don’t worry. She’s probably jealous. Just assure her you’ll always look after her before moving onto someone else.
  • 67. “Your hands can heal anything.” — Most people might think that’s true, but it takes two to tango. So take some time off from work to go out and get manicure/pedicure combos together.
  • 68. All that matters is we’re happy.” — Marriage isn’t easy. At times you may even find yourselves arguing. But that doesn’t mean you have to stop loving each other. Instead, keep reminding yourself that things could be worse.
  • 69. “I want to start a family with you.” — This declaration reveals the seriousness of your feelings for your special someone. Now, it’s time to follow through!
  • 70. “Thank you for listening.” — Sometimes men forget to listen to their wives’ problems. They also tend to overlook all the tiny details like hair oil, pantyhose, etc. But women are keenly aware of these daily struggles, no matter how trivial they seem. You owe it to her to show her you care!
  • 71. I want to do whatever makes you happiest.” — If you’re feeling guilty because you’re not doing everything to please your woman (which is understandable), try expressing that sentiment in different ways. For example, instead of asking what you can do for her, ask what you can do for yourself. Or say something along the lines of, “What does my happiness mean to you?”
  • 72. There is nothing more beautiful than you.” — One day, when you see her from the corner of your eye, this thought will pop into your mind. And it will surely bring you joy!
  • 73. “You’re so sexy!” — We often hear this kind of comment said by romantic partners and girlfriends. But there’s more to being sexy than looks. In fact, sex appeal comes from knowing who he wants you to be.
  • 74. “You are truly amazing.” — This is one of those statements that really hits home. Her beauty or intellect can easily blow your mind away. Regardless of how great she is, though, you’ve got this life thing down real well!
  • 75. It was a pleasure dating you.” — This is a classy way of saying goodbye to your significant other. Use words like this when leaving to avoid any awkwardness between you afterwards.
  • 76. “Honey, I’m sorry.” — When you realize you might have offended your partner, apologize sincerely. This will allow him/her to forgive you without holding a grudge.
  • 77. “If you ever need me, call on me.” — This reassures them you won’t just drop them once you’re done. It lets them know your relationship means more to you than materialistic things.
  • 78. “Let’s go somewhere special. Together.” — There may come a point where you need to take your honey out on a date. Show her you’re still up for adventure.
  • 79. “You’re perfect.” — After years of marriage, this phrase takes on new meaning. Of course, you still shouldn’t let your wife walk all over you. But if she has flaws, compliment her about the good parts.
  • 80. “I adore you.” — Adore is used as an old-fashioned word. However, it conveys the same sentiments as “love” or “I love you.”
  • 81. “I’m proud to be married to such a smart and pretty lady.” — Men often don’t share their girlfriends’ opinions about themselves with anyone else.. This will definitely boost his confidence.
  • 82. “My girl.” — This term of endearment goes back to medieval times and reminds you of the time when your beloved first entered your lives. Women, do use this expression to make him feel good. A simple smile works too.
  • 83. You’re the most important person in the world to me.” — Even after a long life together, you’ll find plenty of people you’d rather spend quality time with. Still, he should never neglect his girlfriend.
  • 84. “I could never imagine loving someone else but you.” — Even if you two aren’t together anymore, you’ll still treasure these words until your dying breath.
  • 85. “I wish we would have met sooner.” — Just sayin’, you had no idea how lucky you were to meet her. Nowadays, everybody seems to fall in love at first sight. So live happily, now that you found each other.
  • 86. “When I think of you, I remember why I fell in love with you for the very first time.” — Whether you haven’t seen her for days or years, this phrase makes her feel special.
  • 87. Thank you for understanding my feelings better than anybody else in the world.” – Thanking your partner shows him that you appreciate everything he does for you. Try not to thank him too much, though. Let him see that he brings happiness into your life.
  • 88. I feel beautiful every day because I am married to you.” — Marriage isn’t always perfect. Sometimes your man gets angry, or maybe you get lonely. Nevertheless, you owe him your unconditional love. He’s been through enough already.
  • 89. “I want to spend rest of our lives together. No matter what happens, we’ll remain a family forever.” — Every couple faces problems, but having a happy future together is priceless.
  • 90. You are the best thing that ever happened to me.” — No matter what life throws your way, try not to look at the bad stuff. Instead, focus on all the good memories you have.
  • 91. “We have been blessed to have you in our lives.” — No one deserves less attention than his girlfriend/wife. And yet, you’re expected to treat her equally.
  • 92. You’ve made me happier than I have ever known before.” — Once you become a husband, your wife becomes your number one priority. Happiness can only exist if yours is the highest of priorities.
  • 93. “This is the happiest day of my life!” — For some reason, couples believe they must announce their engagement on their wedding day. Actually, it doesn’t even need to be so grandiose. Tell him you love him today or tomorrow or any other time you wish.
  • 94. “Happiness lies within ourselves.” — If you’re both happy, then life is certainly beautiful.
  • 95. To my sweetheart, I’m so proud of you for overcoming all the odds against you.” — You’d be surprised how many girls don’t finish high school. Many others fail to graduate college. But you both overcame all the obstacles that stand between you.
  • 96. “You are more precious to me than anything in the whole wide world.” — It takes courage to let somebody know how much you truly adore them. That being said, you don’t have to hold back. Say something like this to your honey when she least expects it.
  • 97. “It was an honor to share my passion with you.” — You may run out of things to say during your lifetime. However, your relationship will last a lifetime.
  • 98. Without you, I wouldn’t be as successful as I am today.” – This line is especially appropriate for those who work hard to achieve success. As long as he has you around, he will keep striving to please you.
  • 99. “I love you. I am here for you, no matter what comes our way. I promise to give you my undivided attention whenever and wherever you need it.” – Be sure to show your significant other that you love him everyday. Because the truth is, true love never dies.
  • 100. “I think about you constantly.” — Most women would die without dreaming of their men. They can’t live without thinking of their beloved.
  • 101. “No matter where I go, you are always by my side.” — Make sure that you let your woman know how amazing she really is.

Conclusion

I hope that these inspirational quotes and words of encouragement for your woman have been a source of inspiration to get through any tough time that you two may possibly face in the future.

You deserve a healthy relationship with your girl, and difficult times do come—but you’ll make it through. Remember what you learned throughout this guide—and use them to help build a strong foundation for the relationship you two share.

Remember: Your wife or girlfriend is worth your time and effort. She’s right there beside you every step of the way, whether you want her to be or not. So stop waiting for her to start feeling better. Don’t wait for the clouds to part, and do everything in your power to bring sunshine into her day.

And remember: When you open yourself up to love, and let it in… There’s nothing else in this world worth living for.

Best of luck!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Felix Prasetyo is the founder and publisher at Lifengoal, covering relationships, social skills, and personal growth. Felix holds a degree in Computer Science from the University of British Columbia, and has also contributed to other media publications such as Addicted2Success.com and YogiApproved.

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