Words of Encouragement for Your Spouse or Significant Other

• 1. You’ve always been there for me.” — When life gets tough, our spouse will often feel like all he or she needs is someone who can listen and be supportive. But sometimes the best thing we can do for them is just be around to provide support.
• 2. I’m proud of what you’ve done.” — Whether your husband or wife deserves praise for something big (getting out of debt) or small (making sure their shoes are clean), letting him know how proud you are helps him see things more clearly — which in turn makes life easier.
• 3. “Life is good when I think about how wonderful you are.” — This is one of my favorite phrases because it doesn’t sound too happy. It sounds more like an affirmation.
• 4. “There’s no end to what you can accomplish.” — Sometimes we need to remind our significant other how amazing he or she really is. The world would go on without our spouse and kids but not without us. And if there is any way possible, make sure they realize this.
• 5. My love for you never waivers.” — You might think love is forever, but as a married couple you learn over time that it isn’t quite true. There are times when you may not have feelings for your spouse at all. Reminding them that you still love them helps get them back on track with those feelings.
• 6. I love you so much.” — While your spouse was probably looking forward to going home after work and having dinner together tonight, reminding them that you do love them should help put his or her mind at ease.
• 7.”Let me help.” — Even if you aren’t feeling well yourself, don’t let your family or friends suffer. Try offering to help out around the house. They’ll appreciate your kindness.
• 8. “Thank you” — People who feel appreciated are generally happier than people who don’t. So why not start by thanking your mate for doing something special for you?
• 9. Don’t worry, everything will be okay.” — No one likes to hear bad news, but everyone appreciates hearing it from someone else instead of from themselves. Remind them of this whenever they’re worried about something.
• 10. “Your smile brightens up the room.” — Having a smile on their face is almost priceless! Make sure you take notice of details such as their smile and laugh. Being reminded of something so simple can boost their spirits.
• 11. I believe in you.” — Believe in anyone, even if they don’t deserve it, especially when they haven’t earned it yet.
• 12. You look great.” — Nothing feels worse than telling your spouse that he or she looks tired or depressed. Instead of saying anything negative, say something nice. This could mean complimenting their hair or outfit.
• 13. “Don’t worry; everything will be fine.” — A person’s worries are usually bigger than the situation itself. Giving them a pep talk gives them hope.
• 14. “I’m here for you.” — If you want to keep someone happy, tell them that they matter. Show them that they are important to you.
• 15. “I love you.” — This phrase has a lot of power behind it. Saying it regularly to your partner will keep them grounded and confident.
• 16. I’m grateful.” — Gratitude builds character. It also keeps gratitude going. Letting them know you recognize their hard work — and that you’re thankful to them for it — will give them confidence in their abilities.
• 17. That’s a beautiful thing.” — Even though many find compliments difficult to receive, remember that receiving positive feedback is often just as hard. A few kind words will make a huge difference in their day.
• 18. “I like you.” — Sometimes, we forget to actually compliment each other. But just like giving a compliment will make your lover feel better, so will talking about liking them.
• 19. “Love always wins.” — Just like there are times when love fades away, there are also times when love comes roaring back. Reminding your significant other that nothing can defeat love will give them reason to fight their way through tough emotional moments.
• 20.”Keep trying.” — One of the most powerful phrases you can use on your significant other. When things seem hopeless, remind them that their efforts are worth noting. It will make them feel more hopeful and encourage them to continue fighting.
• 21. I accept you for who you are.” – The easiest way to show someone they are accepted is to accept them. Acceptance is a sign of unconditional love.
• 22. I forgive you.” — Forgiveness is a key component toward healing any relationship issues. Although forgiving your significant other may seem like an impossible feat, admitting you did wrong allows you both to move forward.
• 23. “I’m sorry.” — You didn’t do anything wrong, but it still hurts. Apologize and explain what led up to that mistake. Doing this will help mend relationships between you two.
• 24. “I see value in you.” — Nobody can live alone, which means no one can survive without someone else having some sort of value for them. Admit that you see their value as well, and it will motivate them to succeed at life.
• 25. Just think positive thoughts.” — Everyone wants to have positive vibes around him/herself. Whenever negativity begins to creep into your head, tell yourself a little phrase such as ‘just think positive thoughts’. It will inspire positive thoughts, change your mood and give you a more optimistic outlook on everything.
• 26. This too shall pass.”—There will always be bad days—even if you’ve been together forever. Learning how to deal with those days is crucial to success in long-term relationships. Tell yourself that these problems and difficulties will eventually go away, and that even though they may not happen immediately, they’ll be gone sooner or later.
• 27. “You look good today” — This is something I say every single morning. Even when I don’t really mean it, this simple sentence has made me feel great and has kept my spirits high throughout the day.
• 28. You deserve this.” — This statement encourages your significant other to feel happy and contented. Saying this could be enough motivation to keep them focused on doing good deeds.
• 29. “Your presence makes me smile.” — If you have a partner who brings joy to your life, make sure to let them know every once in a while.
• 30. What’s something funny?” — Being able to laugh together as a couple is extremely important. Making an effort to laugh together is always fun and uplifting for the person being addressed.
• 31. We can overcome anything!” — Having faith in each other helps you stay strong during difficult circumstances. Remind your significant other that you’re going to get through whatever situation you’re currently facing.
• 32. “Stop focusing on the negative.” — Acknowledge the negatives your significant other experiences; however, stop focusing on them all the time! You need to learn to focus on the positives instead, so your relationship can grow stronger.
• 33. “You look beautiful today.” — Simple words like these are incredibly powerful. Make sure to compliment your spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend when he or she looks gorgeous.
• 34. “It may take a little longer than expected…but we will get there together”. — There’s nothing better than feeling supported by your loved ones. Expressing confidence in your significant other says that you believe in them 100%.
• 35. “Thank you for showing me so much love.” — Every action you take towards your significant other shows your appreciation for them. Even the smallest things matter greatly.
• 36. “You are amazing!” — We have all heard this before, but never truly appreciated the fact until now. Give thanks to your significant other by telling them how much you love them.
• 37. “I’m thinking about you right now.” – Letting your significant other know you’re thinking about them can make their day. They want to hear from you.
• 38. You are perfect just as you are.”— When you allow yourself to accept your significant other for exactly who they are, you’ll find yourself being less stressed out about their own personal flaws.
• 39. “You make me feel…” — Love language is very individual. Some people prefer verbal expressions (such as, “I love you”), while others might enjoy physical touch.
• 40. “I care about you so much.” — These three words often send chills down our spines because we know they actually mean a lot.
• 41. You are worth fighting for.” — The hardest part of any breakup is believing that your significant other doesn’t love you anymore despite clear evidence otherwise. Keep reminding yourself that you are still worthy of the best relationship.
• 42. “I think that you are beautiful inside & out.” — Say this phrase to your significant other whenever you notice signs of depression. It’s okay to show affection but also be aware of what they may be experiencing.
• 43. “You help make my world go round.” – Show your significant other gratitude. Tell him or her that without them, the everyday struggle would be unbearable.
• 44. There is no one else like you.”- While saying this to your significant other is comforting, remember not everyone feels the same way.
• 45. “I am proud of you” – Sometimes words aren’t enough, so tell your significant other in person. The two of you can celebrate your success together.
• 46. “I trust and respect you.”– Saying this to your significant other means more to them than you could ever imagine.
• 47. “I really miss you.” – This is another important statement to share with your significant other. No one knows how much they are missed until it happens.
• 48. “Please don’t forget that I love you” – Saying this to your significant does wonders for your relationship. He or she wants to hear you say it.
• 49. I wish you were here with me.”– If your significant other isn’t around to spend time with you, express your feelings. Maybe you can even call their friends or family members to see if you can grab a few minutes together.
• 50. “It’s going to be alright.” – You will always be close in heart when you’ve expressed confidence in your significant other.
• 51. “I love you too.” – There is nothing better than knowing someone loves you, especially after a long separation.
• 52. “I need you in my life.”– One of the most powerful phrases on our list. Remind your significant other why you need each other. That helps strengthen the connection between you both.
• 53. “I promise I won’t leave you alone again.”– Everyone deserves some space after a break up. Don’t assume that he or she doesn’t care about you.
• 54. When I look at you, all I can think of is us.” — It takes a lot of courage to let go of old hurts. But sometimes we have to face those fears to have new beginnings.
• 55. I’m sorry.” — A broken heart can cause us to do stupid things. Be sure to apologize for whatever hurt you caused.
• 56. “I’ll try harder.” — We all want to improve ourselves. When your significant other says they’re sorry, give them credit where credit is due.
• 57. “We always belong together.” — Believe it or not, this sentence comes true. So many times, couples end up having multiple relationships over a short period. Make sure your significant other understands just how special they are during difficult times.
• 58. “You brought light into my dark place.”— People are attracted to those who bring happiness into other peoples’ lives. Expressing appreciation towards your significant other keeps them motivated as well.
• 59. Thank you for being there for me.” — Even though you may need support, let your significant other know you appreciate everything they’ve done for you.
• 60. “I will never let anyone get between us.” — Even when people are trying to separate you, you shouldn’t take their actions for granted. Take control of your significant other’s future by keeping your bond strong.
• 61. “What would I do without you?” — These are great questions. Reminding yourself of what you wouldn’t be able to accomplish without your significant other makes them feel extra loved.
• 62. I love you more every day.” — Do this whenever you get the chance.
• 63. “You are the best mommy/daddy I could ask for.”— This kind of compliments creates an amazing impression! Let your significant other know exactly how grateful you are for them being part of your family.
• 64. “You make my life complete.” — When describing yourself, highlight your strengths. How you describe yourself affects others’ perceptions of you.
• 65. “You are the only one for me.” — This is a very important declaration. Express your feelings and show him or her the real you.
• 66. “I am so glad you exist!” — If you truly believe in something, express it out loud!
• 67. “Your smile is infectious.” — Smile widely and often. It actually attracts people!
• 68. “You really are the best thing that has ever happened to me.” – Being with someone brings joy. Tell your significant other just how wonderful he or she is.
• 69. You are the reason I laugh every single day.” — Find small ways to compliment your significant other every time you see them.
• 70. You inspire me to become a better person.” – Have confidence in who you are. Be honest with yourself but also be encouraging to your significant other.
• 71. It feels like home.” – Just saying your house was built on solid ground can help keep your relationship healthy.
• 72. “Life is so much sweeter because of you.” – Love should be unconditional! Say thank you for making your significant other happy.
• 73. “Being with you is like sunshine after a storm.” – Life is unpredictable. You never know when things will get tough. By showing your partner gratitude, they will feel even closer to you.
• 74. When I’m sad, you’re the first thing I think about.”– Don’t underestimate the power of a simple text message or phone call. It tells your significant other that you value them and listen to their thoughts.
• 75. “I wish you were here with me right now.” — Everyone needs a little alone time once in a while. Remind your partner that they are worth it.
• 76. I look forward to our next date night.” — A reminder to plan dates and go have fun together. Give your significant other some space for themselves and remind them that you care.
• 77. “There’s nothing I’d rather do than spend time with you.” — You don’t have to say anything special; simply acknowledging your significant other is enough.
• 78. I’m proud of all that we’ve accomplished together.”— Being in a committed relationship doesn’t mean you stop challenging each other. Instead, celebrate the progress you made as a couple.
• 79. “Thank God you found me.” – Sometimes it takes a bit of uncertainty before you find your true love. Don’t forget to give thanks for finding the person who completes you.
• 80. “If it weren’t for you, I would not be alive.” — Never take anyone for granted! Show appreciation and respect for everything they did.
• 81. “You always put me first.” — Make sure to prioritize your significant other over all else. Be there when they need you most.
• 82. “I want us to live happily ever after.” — Even if you aren’t engaged yet, tell your significant other that you hope to spend the rest of your lives together.
• 83. I love you more today than yesterday.” — Whether it’s Valentine’s Day or not, show appreciation for what you have.
• 84. Today I woke up feeling lucky.” – Expressing gratitude for life itself is an incredible way to start off the day.
• 85. “You make me want to try harder.” – Having a partner forces you to grow. Keep pushing yourself forward.
• 86. “You’ve been my rock since I met you.” – In a loving relationship, both partners should support each other. Appreciate your significant other’s efforts.
• 87. “Love makes you brave.” – Remember that love keeps you strong no matter how difficult times may become.
• 88. You inspire me every single day.” – Let your significant other know just how inspired they make you.
• 89. “I’m so thankful to have you by my side.” – Share those words and let your significant other know how very important they are to you.
• 90. “You are the best gift of my life!” – Nothing in this world compares to being loved by someone.
• 91. “Thank you for giving me your heart.” – The greatest compliment you could pay your significant other is to share your feelings.
• 92. “Forever and Always.” – To truly appreciate your significant other, remember why you fell in love with them in the first place. What kept you from breaking up? How much does that mean to you?
• 93. “You are my inspiration.” — Not only does this show your significant other that you admire them, but it also brings encouragement.
• 94. You’re the woman I couldn’t live without.” — Admit that your significant other has changed your outlook on life forever. This will help make their commitment even stronger.
• 95. “Your smile lights up my day.” – If your significant other was able to bring joy to your life, then you should recognize that achievement.
• 96. “You fill me with warmth.” – Do something nice for your significant other, like taking them out for dinner or going shopping.
• 97. “Never doubt my love for you!” – You can’t feel worthy of your significant other unless he or she shows you unending love. Believe in their ability to do so.
• 98. “I wish I had known you years ago.” – You don’t get second chances at love. But you can still make amends for mistakes you made earlier in life.
• 99. “I love you as a friend first.” — Love your significant other as friends before anything else.
• 100. “No one understands my dreams better than you.” — Tell your significant other about your hopes and aspirations. They’ll love hearing you speak about your goals and plan for your future together.
• 101. “I’m glad I found you.” — If you find your significant other, be grateful. A happy beginning is a good foundation on which to build a lasting partnership.
• 102. “You’re everything to me.” – Show your love through acts of kindness and patience. Being loved never goes out of style!
• 103. “As long as we have each other we need nothing else.” — Find meaning in showing your appreciation for your significant other. When you reach this level of love, you won’t even notice you are missing out on anything else.
• 104. “It’s an honor to call you mine.” — Choose words that convey admiration, respect, and desire. Words that describe the feeling you want to create in your significant other.
• 105. “Today I choose to love again.” — Don’t give up on love when things get tough. Take each setback in stride and learn how to cope with challenges.
• 106. “I treasure every moment spent with you.” — Time flies when you’re having fun. Don’t waste precious time doing activities that are boring or hurtful. Be appreciative of any moments you spend together or with your significant other.

Conclusion

I hope that these positive affirmations and words of encouragement for your significant other could be a source of inspiration for you two to cultivate a healthy relationship, as well as getting through tough times in your daily life.

Best of luck!